Relationships are full of ups and downs, and it’s not perfect all the time. Now, you may accept this flaw in love easily, but that doesn’t mean that couples can’t be perfectly happy. Sometimes, the easiest way to find true happiness in love is by throwing away your high societal expectations from the relationship, and just making your own rules. So if you really want to have a happy relationship or a wonderful marriage, just focus on these 7 main secret ingredients of a perfect relationship with romance, instead of wondering where you’re going wrong in love
Trust is the main key in a relationship. If you want a happy relationship, then its need to have trust. i’m not just talking about the type of trust that comes from being faithful and loyal i’m also taking about the trust that both of you have in each other’s ability to do things., if there isn’t any trust then there’s no point in being in a relationship.
2 : Understanding
if ya’ll think being in a serious relationship is always being happy, having no worries, always being up, always having mutual understanding . every relationship needs to have a certain level of understanding, otherwise both of you will always be at other’s throat . understanding doesn’t means that you have to forgive your partner for things they have done wrong. it just means that you, at least, try to see things from their point of view
3 : Support
you need to be supportive of your partner. you need to feel like you could tell your partner anything, and they wouldn’t walk away from you and that they would do everything in their power to help and support through it. having a supportive partner builds you up, makes you feel stronger and help you to do things that you would’t normally thing possible
4 : Attraction
this might sounds a little obvious, but physical attraction & mental attraction are two things that are needed in a relationship. it’s about finding the entirety of them attractive- mind, body and soul
5 : Respect
every relationship should be made up of two people who respect each other. In a relationship you should know where the boundary line stops. Even If it’s a hook up,before you begin exploring your boundaries with your partner there must be mutual respect, understanding and communication to prevent any blurred lines.it doesn’t matter if one of you has a higher paying job or if one of you is more intelligent then the other, you should respect your partner and your partner should respect you
6 : Make time for each other
Spending time together with your partner is important, to have strong bond, you need to spend time with each other. a bond isn’t something that is cemented and even after you share a strong connection with your partner, you need to nurture it, to keep it. It doesn’t matter how much time you and your partner spend together. The most important part is about the quality of this time.When couples spend too much time together, it can create an unhealthy co dependence. Maintaining healthy boundaries and some autonomy will make for a long-lasting partnership
Don’t force Change
people change over time, that just a face of life, it’s something that happens naturally and it cannot be stopped. but does’t means that you can control those changes that occur. if you try to control the changes and tailor them to your needs, then you will only find yourself fighting a losing battle. think of your partner’s habit as a river it will only change direction when it hits a natural bend in the path and trying to change your partner to the way you want, all the time, could only end up frustrating them over time.
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